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From posting this blog I have learnt that people from Paris are called Parisians :)
To a Nigerian father, Adichie’s advice is:
“Raise your daughter and your son the same way. Either you keep both of them home so that they can’t go out late or you allow both of them to go out late. Raise them not thinking about gender. Don’t thinks she’s a girl therefore she should do this. I think we should just think this is a bright child, therefore…”
To a Brother:
“Don’t think of your sister as your property. Don’t think of your sister as a person whose life you can control. To a brother I would say think of your sister as having equal rights to you.”
To a young Nigerian woman:
“Never ever apologise for being who you are.”
To The President of a western country:
“Stop thinking that gender problems only exist in Africa. It exists in your own country too.”
To The Pope:
“First I would say I love you and then I would say please try and give women more roles. I think that women priests should be allowed in the catholic church. There are women who are full of faith and who want to serve god as priests.”
To Hillary Clinton:
“Go Hillary! I think she’s going to be the next president of the United States.”
To Simone de Beauvoir:
“What happened with you and Sartre again? I would say love is a feminist issue.”
To a teacher who insists that feminism is not African
“You have a lot to learn.”
To Women:
“Buy very good lipstick. [laughs] If you like lipstick. More seriously I’d say it’s not just about lipstick but to love yourself. Do what feels like you.”
To Herself:
“Do better. I do want to be better. As I become older there are things I want to be better at. I want to be better at forgiving people.”
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