Thursday, August 4, 2016

Movie Review: Me Before You


So I remember seeing a tweet that the movie Me before you  was going to be out in 2016 and of course trust all these bookwormish twitter people to drop their comments, saying that it would be unfair to watch the movie without reading the book. I went ahead to ask for soft copy so that I could read.



Image result for me before youI got the book but didn't have a good phone then to read so it was in my archive till I eventually got a good phone which I could epub with and read books. I read the book up-till half way well let me just say till I got the whole message of the book am not such a fan of reading from the phone unlike reading hard copy.

Story story!!

Fast forward to 2016 july just walking across my colleagues desk and I see the movie Me Before You on his screen I was almost screaming and feeling myself because I could relate so much with it so  I had to beg him for it so I could watch for myself.

Me Before You is a fantastic English-American movie and I loved watching every bit of it and am so glad I watched it and also got the chance to read the book. If you are like me you will definitely love it and also this song which is courtesy Afoma  you should visit her blog she's an amazing writer and doctor.

Forgive me if this post is entirely boring but I have not written for months. I pray this is some sort of come back.

xoxo...






Friday, April 22, 2016

25 Random Facts About Me



A lot of bloggers do this I mean a lot of us do and well I wasn't tagged to do so which is the usual trend I felt I should do so because for some reason it would also help me coin down some things about myself which are facts and are true.

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  1. I am Christian not perfect but my love for God can never go down neither can His love towards me
  2. I was born on a Thursday, i also love thursdays. Readers in Lagos will also notice how thursdays are the most chill days in Lagos less traffic and also the day before Friyay!! well that's just a lil somethin from me to know that Thursday is a pretty cool day
  3. I have two amazing sisters.
  4. I love putting on glasses even though I don't need them. I just love the nerdy-geeky look
  5. I never burden people with my present situation. So if you call me and am on a sick bed I had rather not have the conversation with you or I would have the conversation and still speak with you excitedly.
  6. I love reading
  7. I love the colour orange.
  8. I find it difficult to understand women/ladies who find it comfortable who seat among men who bad mouth women. It's like seating in the midst of the scornful just as the Bible puts it :)
  9. I have over 4000 images on my phone gallery of my friends, family, screenshots from my social media pages.
  10. All my friends say am stubborn and I have a face which tells the exact opposite(something of a superpower if I must say)
  11. I hate Iro and Buba
  12. I love to travel (Bucket list majorly contains a lot of places I want to travel to)
  13. I have very small number of friends that I love deeply
  14. I never cry watching a movie. Need I emphasize more NEVER!
  15. I love poems
  16. I love Nigerian literature
  17. I am not very girly and I am also not a tomboy. I am not vain well I don't know how this might sound but it's true.
  18. I never display anger
  19. I am very shy
  20. I very much want to be a model not a runway model, but be on the cover of a magazine, a billboard or the face of a clothing line or eyewear. (Epp a sister if you gat connection)
  21. I am a foodie...I love good food
  22. I love wristwatches
  23. I love to give not necessarily dash stuff but I do enjoy giving and rendering assistance.
  24. I'm a social media enthusiast
  25. I didn't know writing 25 things could be so tough. I will be 25 this year and am looking forward to it(not really wish I could be 18 forever but life has to go on)
Here are some things I do know about myself which I will definitely love to change or let go off
    Giving excuses alot(I'm so good at this)
    I assume a lot(jumping into conclusions is something am very good at)

    P.S Please leave your comments and let me know what you do think of me.

    P.S. So you see me this is my growth phase/rebranding process



    Thursday, March 24, 2016

    Insightful Ted Post: Why 30 is not the new 20

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    Meg Jay: Photo credit courtesy: megjay
    So you are twenty something and you've been thinking this is the best time of your life to be a bum and be irresponsible this video will teach you to know better.

    I'm an ardent viewer of ted posts but this one really got me and I had to share to us twenty somethings out there.

    For more visit: MegJay.com




    Don't let your life be defined by what you did or didn't do.









    Wednesday, March 9, 2016

    Chimamanda Adichie Gives Parisian 10 Lessons On Feminism

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    The Lovely Chimamanda Photo Credit:Brittle Paper

    From posting this blog I have learnt that people from Paris are called Parisians :)


    To a Nigerian father, Adichie’s advice is:
    “Raise your daughter and your son the same way. Either you keep both of them home so that they can’t go out late or you allow both of them to go out late. Raise them not thinking about gender. Don’t thinks she’s a girl therefore she should do this. I think we should just think this is a bright child, therefore…”
    To a Brother:
    “Don’t think of your sister as your property. Don’t think of your sister as a person whose life you can control. To a brother I would say think of your sister as having equal rights to you.”
    To a young Nigerian woman:
    “Never ever apologise for being who you are.”
    To The President of a western country:
    “Stop thinking that gender problems only exist in Africa. It exists in your own country too.”
    To The Pope:
    “First I would say I love you and then I would say please try and give women more roles. I think that women priests should be allowed in the catholic church. There are women who are full of faith and who want to serve god as priests.”
    To Hillary Clinton:
    “Go Hillary! I think she’s going to be the next president of the United States.”
    To Simone de Beauvoir:
    “What happened with you and Sartre again? I would say love is a feminist issue.”
    To a teacher who insists that feminism is not African
    “You have a lot to learn.”
    To Women:
    “Buy very good lipstick. [laughs] If you like lipstick. More seriously I’d say it’s not just about lipstick but to love yourself. Do what feels like you.”
    To Herself:
    “Do better. I do want to be better. As I become older there are things I want to be better at. I want to be better at forgiving people.”




    Tuesday, February 23, 2016

    May's Diary

    Yay!!!

    This post is not sponsored neither is it paid for, it's a post to announce a brand new media inspirational , lifestyle  and wellness  page by my very own homegirl.

    Photo Credit: Facebook

    This page is brilliant and also contains inspirational quotes most of which are written by my friend and also some by successful people we know so well and admire.

    So what are you all waiting for? Run along!! Go follow on Facebook : May's Diary , IG:  Official May's Diary

    P.S Mayar you owe me something now :)



    Saturday, February 20, 2016

    5 Things I've Learnt From Dating.

    5 Things I've Learnt From Dating.
    Picture credit:www.psychologytoday.com
    Getting into relationships could seem like hard work or a do or die affair in an age with so much social media presence and people picking up their validations from a sense of being loved.
    I’ll be sharing some of the things i've learnt form dating all of which are pulled out from interactions with different age groups and people from different works of life.
    1
    •      Date someone you can’t stand: Am playing here with comparisons but I think at times you should date someone you cannot stand, someone who totally irks just because. This just helps you to know your limit and helps you get a better grasp of yourself and what not to deal with in the nearest future. Dating someone you can’t stand stretches you helping you to know you can actually live with any kind of person.

    Love that lasts are the kind that grows and not the one that is always high up.

    •    Date someone for his or her money: A popular song says (Whether na 1naira na one million baby you got me). Here am telling you to date a guy for his 1million my dear girl, date a guy you know of his financial capacity don’t get carried away with the love alone. Financial capacity is the main ingredient of any love potion.

    This is not to say that you date someone solely for their money.

    Also you could try dating a woman that has money as a guy believing that she will spoil you. There is nothing wrong in dating a woman who is more financially more capable than you.


    •         Date someone you don’t plan to marry: Try this out and date someone of an opposite religion, different tribe or even so a temperament which you are not compatible with from the popular book on temperaments. I for one like to put Nigerian parents under pressure so you could date a guy or a girl form the tribe or religion your parents will never approve of. This will help to foster room for people being more accommodative of other religions and tribe. Take for instance you go to study in faraway Australia away from home wouldn’t it be nice to date someone while you are there studying (Remember! All work and no play makes Jack/Jill dull)



    •             You are entitled to nothing: This is a really superb idea when going into a relationship being able to understand that it is just a relationship and not an entitlement or some right. To be a participant of this you must learn to manage your expectations.




    •            Be your worst self: Learn to be your worst self. Show your other half or date partner your worst side, your weakness.

    Present your worst self during all the days when you have butterflies so your partner is not necessarily deceived or lured by what won’t last.
    Picture Credit:www.yahoo.com

    Here's a disclaimer: This post was written out of trying not to follow the norm at all times. If dating means commitment to you make sure you do go for it... I for one wants just as indicated below.

    Picture Credit: www.pinterest.com



    This post was written by the Chief Editor of this blog Oluwadamilola Omotunde. 

    This post was made possible by Samuel (Sam is a daytime banker and a night full-fledged creative thinker seeking whom to share ideas with)

    Saturday, January 23, 2016

    A Life Manifesto


    If you had a life manifesto what would it contain? 

    I found a beautiful one and had to share to you my wonderful readers.



    For more insight you can read here

    P.S If you don't know what medium is you are on a long thing

    This post is courtesy: The Handsome Pig




    Wednesday, January 20, 2016

    Career Advice To Try In 2016

    The holidays are long over and 2016 stretches before us, wide and unwritten. You can make it your best year so far.

    Sure, the next 12 months will bring your share of troubles, issues and setbacks.

    But they will also usher in a heaping load of opportunities, experiences, and victories.


    To help guide you to make the most of all them, here's a piece I found from my daily internet surfing

    Read here

    Solemates founder Becca Brown: Act 'as if'
    Courtesy:Business Insider


    Drop your comments and let me know which of these tips stood out for you

    Post is courtesy Business Insider

    Tuesday, January 19, 2016

    New Post 2016

    I cover my face in shame writing this post, who leaves a blog un-updated for so long.
    Pardon me guys and Happy New Year!!! Welcome to 2016 My year to flourish, Flourish because coming in to this new year have been having a lot of deep communications with myself all in my head in the bus, church, living room,toilet etc. No moment passes without these conversations evolving.
    The theme was coined on a bus ride to work from the word THRIVE which means to grow vigorously or to flourish.
    So to someone out there reading my blog I say to you a very Happy New Year and also take time a lot of time if I must add to converse with yourself you could just have your watchword for the year.

    P.S Happy NewYear!!
    xoxo

    Sunday, January 3, 2016

    13 Success Tips For 2016


    No matter how old you are, where you’re from or what you do for a living, we all share something in common—a desire to be successful. Each person’s definition of success is different, however, as some may define success as being a loving and faithful spouse or a caring and responsible parent, while most people would equate success with wealth, fame, and power.

    We all want to achieve success so we could live a comfortable life—have financial freedom, drive a nice car, and live in a beautiful house. However, although success can be achieved, it does not come easy.

    There are a lot of tips and strategies out there on how to be successful in life, but I am still a firm believer that there is no better way to succeed than to follow that footsteps of those who have already done so. Here are 13 success tips from some of the world’s most successful and renowned people:

    1. Think big.

    From Michelangelo Buonarroti, Great Renaissance Artist: “The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark.”

    2. Find what you love to do and do it.

    From Oprah Winfrey, Media Mogul: “You know you are on the road to success if you would do your job and not be paid for it.”

    3. Learn how to balance life.

    From Phil Knight, CEO of Nike Inc.: “There is an immutable conflict at work in life and in business, a constant battle between peace and chaos. Neither can be mastered, but both can be influenced. How you go about that is the key to success.”

    4. Do not be afraid of failure.

    From Henry Ford, Founder of Ford Motors: “Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.”

    5. Have an unwavering resolution to succeed.

    From Colonel Sanders, Founder of KFC: “I made a resolve then that I was going to amount to something if I could. And no hours, nor amount of labor, nor amount of money would deter me from giving the best that there was in me. And I have done that ever since, and I win by it. I know.”

    6. Be a man of action.

    From Leonardo da Vinci, Renaissance Genius :“It had long since come to my attention that people of accomplishment rarely sat back and let things happen to them. They went out and happened to things.”



    7. Avoid conflicts.

    From Theodore Roosevelt, 26th President of America: “The most important single ingredient in the formula of success is knowing how to get along with people.”

    8. Don’t be afraid of introducing new ideas.

    From Mark Twain, Famed Author: “A person with a new idea is a crank until the idea succeeds.”

    9. Believe in your capacity to succeed.

    From Walter Disney, Founder of Walt Disney Company: “If you can dream it, you can do it.”

    10. Always maintain a positive mental attitude.

    From Thomas Jefferson, 3rd President of America: “Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.”

    11. Don’t let discouragement stop you from pressing on.

    From Abraham Lincoln, 16th President of America: “Let no feeling of discouragement prey upon you, and in the end you are sure to succeed.”

    12. Be willing to work hard.

    From JC Penny, Founder of JC Penney Inc.: “Unless you are willing to drench yourself in your work beyond the capacity of the average man, you are just not cut out for positions at the top.”

    13. Be brave enough to follow your intuition.

    From Steve Jobs, Co-founder of Apple Inc.: “Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”

    Courtesy: more.ng





    Wednesday, December 30, 2015

    13 Easy Steps To Begin Yoga

    Stress is a headache, practicing stress relief is free and beneficial. 

    Follow these steps below for easy Yoga


    This post is courtesy: m.huffpost.com

    Monday, December 28, 2015

    10 Healthy Things To Do Before 9 A.M.

    10 Healthy Things To Do Before 9 A.M.

    Our alarm goes off and we hit the snooze button. That happens a few more times. Then with no time to waste, we leap out of bed, dash into the shower, fly out of the house wearing a wrinkled shirt and grab a quick coffee on our way to work. Basically, we live every morning as if it were “Groundhog Day,” always promising ourselves we’ll do it differently tomorrow.

    Though this kind of morning routine affords a couple of extra blinks of sleep, many in the medical field insist that beginning the day under such stress is just not healthy. It sets a chaotic tone, inviting further stress as the hours progress, and completely undermines any good the extra rest may have provided.

    But there are a number of things we can learn from those of us who have our stuff together to rewrite our morning routine almost entirely. We partnered with Tropicana to bring you the healthy person’s guide to starting the day right.

    1. They set a sleep schedule and stick to it

    Eradicate some of the chaos by setting a bedtime and sticking to it. It may seem like a funny thing for adults, but it’s incredibly important. Our bodies get out of whack if we go to sleep at 10 p.m. one night and midnight another. It’s an energy-drainer, so set a bedtime and do your best to stick with it. It’s surprising how quickly a new routine will stick.

    2. They wake up early -- as early as 6 a.m.Provide yourself with enough time to accomplish your morning goals and this will change the entire rhythm of your day. And knocking out a few small, easy things in the morning -- like making your bed as soon as you get up -- helps to build your momentum to accomplish things throughout the day.

    3. They drink a lot of water

    You haven’t had anything to drink since last night, so it’s good to rehydrate yourself. The water fires up your metabolism.

    “You never want your pee to be dark yellow,” says personal trainer and marathon runner Angie Knudson, 34. “That means you’re dehydrated. Water helps to regulate sodium levels in the body.”

    4. They exercise before the day gets goingMorning exercise will provide a reliable boost of energy, and even a light workout delivers a sense of accomplishment. “Things accumulate,” says Alfred Gallegos, 28, a personal trainer based in California In the morning, there’s no excuses, and you don’t have the same energy level for exercise at the end of the day.”

    5. They eat a hearty, balanced breakfast Give your body the energy it needs to get through an active day. “I eat eight egg whites with spinach, kale, tomato and avocado,” says Michael Dreishpoon, 50, who hits the gym six days a week. “There’s tons of protein in that, and good fats in the avocado.” Later, Dreishpoon will turn to a bowl of oatmeal with blueberries and grapes for carbohydrates and natural sugars.

    6. They meditate There are various forms of meditation, but the morning -- just after waking up or exercising -- is the ideal time for it. Stephen Sullivan, 37, an actor in Los Angeles, engages in transcendental meditation for 20 minutes each morning. “It helps ground me, and center my emotions,” he says. “I feel a greater sense of gratitude for the day and my life in general.”

    7. They read Reading in the morning can have a number of benefits, from creating space for yourself to relieving stress to even getting your brain into work mode. “It’s important to have time for yourself,” says Christian Addison, 39, a police sergeant in New York who wakes up 90 minutes before his kids do and incorporates reading into his morning routine. “It helps you take on the day.”

    8. They write in a journal (really!) There are anumber of benefits to keeping a journal, but writing in one each morning will help spark your creativity, while strengthening your self-discipline and confidence, which you can take with you throughout the day.

    9. They listen to music Music lights up the brain. Get your mind into a positive place with something upbeat and uplifting on the way to work.

    10. They tell someone “I love you” Showing your gratitude and telling someone you love them daily can have powerful health benefits. Not to mention the fact that a little love, whether romantic or even just between friends, helps to ease stress and put the rest of the day on the right path.

    This post is courtesy: mhuffpost.com

    Monday, December 21, 2015

    Fly Photos Of Genevieve Nnaji


    Going through Instagram these pictures had me captivated. All pictures of Genevieve were taken in Lagos by ace photographer Ty Bello.








    Drop your comments below J



    Sheryl Sandberg To Her Younger Self On Starting Out

    Sheryl Sandberg, COO at Facebook and founder of LeanIn.Org

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    Find work you love. When you believe in what you are doing, you can combine passion with contribution – and that is a true gift. Keep trying and you will find what you love to do… and once you do, you will crush it.

    Believe you can do anything. This is important for everyone and especially for women. Don’t let anyone tell you can’t have both a meaningful professional career and a fulfilling personal life. When you hear someone say you can't do something, know that you can and start figuring out how. Ask yourself, “What would I do if I weren’t afraid?”

    There is no straight path to where you are going. If you try to draw that line you will not just get it wrong, but you will miss big opportunities. As Pattie Sellers of Fortune Magazine says, careers are not ladders but jungle gyms.  You don't have to have it all figured out. I recommend adopting two concurrent goals:

    1.      A long-term dream: It doesn't have to be realistic or even specific. For example, you might say you want to work in a specific field, travel the world, and have more free time. Even a vague goal can provide direction.

    2.      An 18-month plan: Set personal goals for what you want to learn in the next year and a half. Ask yourself how you can improve and what you're afraid to do (that's usually the thing you should try).

    Post is courtesy: Quora



    Miss Nigeria At Miss Universe Pageant


    The tweet below initiated this post



    Let me add my additional questions:
    Who are were her sponsors?
    What were their intentions with the cloth?
    Are there no advisers on National Image?



    See the outfit yourself and know the cause of my ranting


    Drop your comments below and let me know your views on the dress Yay/Nay?

    Article by ME (Oluwadamilola Omotunde)J
    Software Engineer at day Budding blogger for a little while more.




    Social Media Stalking



    Far back in the 90’s or 80’s there was nothing like Facebook ,Twitter or even email addresses for most Nigerian youths but in present times everyone in Nigeria has a social media account and even if it’s hardly in use. For those who put them into good use and are very socially media active it’s their second nature to post pictures, events, make use of hash tags and also post their relationship status.
    Relationships which brings me into my actual topic ‘Social Media Stalking’. Why do we stalk people on social media? Before I go further let me state that I don’t why it’s done but I like to tag myself as a positive social media stalker as I have people that I stalk on social media but have positive influence on me and have learnt so much from the like of bloggers like SisiYemmie, Linda Ikeji and also twitter handles like Editi EffiongOre Fakorede these are just a few (now you guys know that you have a stalker).
    Am always surprised when I meet someone a day before and the next day I login to my Facebook account and find a new request man!! I didn’t even say I was active there. Is this act always on impulse and also a style of stalking?
    I encourage social media stalking but it has to be done positively you don’t go and add every tom, dick and harry to increase your stats it really is not worth it. I for one on my twitter account am not bothered by the number of my followers. I follow people I learn from and people who are crazy funny and people who inspire you just by tweeting so much brain….

    Drop your comments below and let me know your views on Social Media Stalking and if you are guilty as charged.

    Article by ME (Oluwadamilola Omotunde)J
    Software Engineer at day Budding blogger for a little while more.




    Friday, December 18, 2015

    10 time-management tips from Ernest Hemingway


    Ernest Miller Hemingway was an American novelist, short story writer, and journalist. His economical and understated style had a strong influence on 20th-century fiction, while his life of adventure and his public image influenced later generations.


    1. Stay on your toes.

    “Never sit a table when you can stand at the bar.”
    Standing keeps you in a state of readiness—to make connections, observations, or even a hasty retreat, should one be necessary.

    2. Be selective.

    “Never to go on trips with anyone you do not love.”
    Whether choosing travel companions or colleagues, surround yourself with people who bring out the best in you. Nothing impedes productivity like forced conversation.

    3. Always start in pencil.

    “Wearing down seven number-two pencils is a good day’s work.”
    Papa often waxed poetic about the importance of writing in pencil, even measuring his productivity in worn-down implements versus the words on the page. The practice is at least as important as the product—so whether you’re sketching or scrawling, consider the eraser your creative liberator.

    4. Stick to the facts.

    “If I started to write elaborately, or like someone introducing or presenting something, I found that I could cut that scrollwork or ornament out and throw it away and start with the first true simple declarative sentence I had written.”
    Feigning knowledge or needlessly elaborating upon the facts only creates extra work for everyone involved. In communications both personal and professional, just stick to the simple truth—it’ll set you free.

    5. Never stop working.

    “We are all apprentices in a craft where no one ever becomes a master.”
    Any work worth doing is never truly finished. There’s always room for
     improvement, so stop focusing on the destination and start enjoying the 
    journey.

    6. Be honest with yourself.

    “You shouldn’t write if you can’t write.”
    Life’s too short for denial. Find your natural talent, and run with it.

    7. Write what you know.

    “Up in that room I decided that I would write one story about each thing that I knew about. I was trying to do this all the time I was writing, and it was good and severe discipline.”
    Or say what you know. Or do what you know. Whether you’re penning a novel or trying to build a process from the ground up, brilliant ideas don’t come out of thin air; they’re inspired by real experience.

    8. Don’t be paralyzed by fear.

    “The first draft of anything is shit.”
    Pardon Hemingway's candor, but he’s right: It’s better start something poorly than to not start it at all. Rather than procrastinate until you have a “plan,” try tackling your next project immediately—even if you have no idea where it’s going yet.

    9. Pay attention.

    “When people talk, listen completely. Most people never listen.”
    You’d be amazed how much time you can waste by circling back to things—conversations, processes, projects—that were crystal clear from the beginning. Approach new challenges with open eyes, ears, and mind, and you’ll already be ahead of the game.

    10. Believe it or not, write sober.

    “My training was never to drink after dinner nor before I wrote nor while I was writing.”
    This is a convincing counter to the “write drunk, edit sober” edict often attributed to Hemingway, the validity of which is murky at best. No man known for such syntactical precision could possibly have been toasted at the typewriter. The man enjoyed a drink, but only in the right time and place.
    Read the original article on Birchbox Man. Copyright 2015. Follow Birchbox Man on Twitter.